Part
2 - Chapter 8
ABOUT
WOMEN ACTING THE PART OF A MAN; AND OF THE
WORK OF A MAN
WHEN
a woman sees that her lover is fatigued by
constant congress, without having his desire
satisfied, she should, with his permission,
lay him down upon his back, and give him
assistance by acting his part. She may also
do this to satisfy the curiosity of her
lover, or her own desire of novelty.
There
are two ways of doing this, the first is
when during congress she turns round, and
gets on the top of her lover, in such a
manner as to continue the congress, without
obstructing the pleasure of it; and the
other is when she acts the man's part from
the beginning. At such a time, with flowers
in her hair hanging loose, and her smiles
broken by hard breathings, she should press
upon her lover's bosom with her own breasts,
and lowering her head frequently, should do
in return the same actions which he used to
do before, returning his blows and chaffing
him, should say, `I was laid down by you,
and fatigued with hard congress, I shall now
therefore lay you down in return.' She
should then again manifest her own
bashfulness, her fatigue, and her desire of
stopping the congress. In this way she
should do the work of a man, which we shall
presently relate.
Whatever
is done by a man for giving pleasure to a
woman is called the work of a man, and is as
follows:
While
the woman is lying on his bed, and is as it
were abstracted by his conversation, he
should loosen the knot of her undergarments,
and when she begins to dispute with him, he
should overwhelm her with kisses. Then when
his lingam is erect he should touch her with
his hands in various places, and gently
manipulate various parts of the body. If the
woman is bashful, and if it is the first
time that they have come together, the man
should place his hands between her thighs,
which she would probably keep close
together, and if she is a very young girl,
he should first get his hands upon her
breasts, which she would probably cover with
her own hands, and under her armpits and on
her neck. If however she is a seasoned
woman, he should do whatever is agreeable
either to him or to her, and whatever is
fitting for the occasion. After this he
should take hold of her hair, and hold her
chin in his fingers for the purpose of
kissing her. On this, if she is a young
girl, she will become bashful and close her
eyes. Anyhow he should gather from the
action of the woman what things would be
pleasing to her during congress.
Here
Suvarnanabha says that while a man is doing
to the woman what he likes best during
congress, he should always make a point of
pressing those parts of her body on which
she turns her eyes.
The
signs of the enjoyment and satisfaction of
the woman are as follows: her body relaxes,
she closes her eyes, she puts aside all
bashfulness, and shows increased willingness
to unite the two organs as closely together
as possible. On the other hand, the signs of
her want of enjoyment and of failing to be
satisfied are as follows: she shakes her
hands, she does not let the man get up,
feels dejected, bites the man, kicks him,
and continues to go on moving after the man
has finished. In such cases the man should
rub the yoni of the woman with his hand and
fingers (as the elephant rubs anything with
his trunk) before engaging in congress,
until it is softened, and after that is done
he should proceed to put his lingam into
her.
The
acts to be done by the man are:
Moving
forward
Friction or churning
Piercing
Rubbing
Pressing
Giving a blow
The blow of a boar
The blow of a bull
The sporting of a sparrow
When
the organs are brought together properly and
directly it is called `moving the organ
forward'.
When
the lingam is held with the hand, and turned
all round in the yoni, it is called
`churning'.
When
the yoni is lowered, and the upper part of
it is struck with the lingam, it is called
`piercing'.
When
the same thing is done on the lower part of
the yoni, it is called `rubbing'.