Part
5 - Chapter 3
EXAMINATION
OF THE STATE OF A WOMAN'S MIND
WHEN
a man is trying to gain over a woman he
should examine the state of her mind, and
act as follows:
If
she listens to him, but does not manifest to
him in any way her own intentions, he should
then try to gain her over by means of a
go-between.
If
she meets him once, and again comes to meet
him better dressed than before, or comes to
him in some lonely place, he should be
certain that she is capable of being enjoyed
by the use of a little force. A woman who
lets a man make up to her, but does not give
herself up, even after a long time, should
be considered as a trifler in love, but
owing to the fickleness of the human mind,
even such a woman can be conquered by always
keeping up a close acquaintance with her.
When
a woman avoids the attentions of a man, and
on account of respect for him, and pride in
herself, will not meet him or approach him,
she can be gained over with difficulty,
either by endeavouring to keep on familiar
terms with her, or else by an exceedingly
clever go-between.
When
a man makes up to a woman, and she
reproaches him with harsh words, she should
be abandoned at once.
When
a woman reproaches a man, but at the same
time acts affectionately towards him, she
should be made love to in every way.
A
woman, who meets a man in lonely places, and
puts up with the touch of his foot, but
pretends, on account of the indecision of
her mind, not to be aware of it, should be
conquered by patience, and by continued
efforts as follows:
If
she happens to go to sleep in his vicinity
he should put his left arm round her, and
see when she awakes whether she repulses him
in reality, or only repulses him in such a
way as if she was desirous of the same thing
being done to her again. And what is done by
the arm can also be done by the foot. If the
man succeeds in this point he should embrace
her more closely, and if she will not stand
the embrace and gets up, but behaves with
him as usual the next day, he should
consider then that she is not unwilling to
be enjoyed by him. If however she does not
appear again, the man should try to get over
her by means of a go-between; and if, after
having disappeared for some time, she again
appears, and behaves with him as usual, the
man should then consider that she would not
object to be united with him.
When
a woman gives a man an opportunity, and
makes her own love manifest to him, he
should proceed to enjoy her. And the signs
of a woman manifesting her love are these:
*
She calls out to a man without being
addressed by him in the first instance.
*
She shows herself to him in secret places.
*
She speaks to him tremblingly and
inarticulately.
*
She has the fingers of her hand, and the
toes of her feet moistened with
perspiration, and her face blooming with
delight.
*
She occupies herself with shampooing his
body and pressing his head.
*
When shampooing him she works with one hand
only, and with the other she touches and
embraces parts of his body.
*
She remains with both hands placed on his
body motionless as if she had been surprised
by something, or was overcome by fatigue.
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Swami Veet Chintan T'Zorba-Krsna
Jyotish
Shastracharya
& Vedic Astrologer of India
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